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If you’re reading this and feeling a bit curious about swinging — either with your spouse, a new or long-time partner, or just that cool friend with benefits you have an understanding with — there are a few more things you should know before you dive in. Below, four women get real about what their own swinging experiences were really like.
So, you found the perfect party, met the right people, and dipped your toes into the lifestyle. But after a night of fun, silence. No follow ups. No return invites. What gives? Did you break one of the swinger etiquette mistakes?
When I first started swinging, I was convinced that all other women were a threat to my relationship and I would have to fight off any potential advances they made toward my partner. Although I did want to explore the lifestyle and identify as bisexual, the reality of another woman getting involved, even though it was also for my pleasure and benefit, was too much for me, and I found myself feeling increasingly more hostile each time a woman approached my partner.
When my husband and I first entered the lifestyle, to say I was naïve would probably be a massive understatement. I’d been raised in an extremely conservative and religious household where sex was something we did not speak of, ever, beyond a very basic lesson on where babies come from before the health class presentation at school. I got married very young and aside from watching a little porn together now and then I was as naive as they come.
It seems like a wild dream with all the dates, drinking, drugs, partying, and sex. This role allows them to freely explore their sexual desires without facing societal judgment, often resulting in enjoyable and liberating experiences. But let's examine the real-life challenges and intricacies of being a unicorn.
Do you find yourself in your head during times of intimacy? When you are in your head, can you thoroughly enjoy the experience? If you answered yes to either question, you are not alone! Many allow their insecurities to ruin their ability to be fully present during intimate times with their partners.
Alana, Megan, and Kevin of Camp Throuple talk about the 5 things they wish they knew before getting into a throuple. They look back on lessons learned, the good, the bad, and suprises along the way.
The episode features a recurring guest named Confident Cuck, who shares his experience of visiting a swingers club with his girlfriend for the first time. He details how the environment allowed them to explore their cuckolding interests in a safe and consensual setting, with his girlfriend ultimately engaging in sexual activity with another man while Confident Cuck observed. The atmosphere of the club is described, including the diverse crowd, themed decor, and designated play areas. Confident Cuck highlights the psychological aspects of the experience, such as his girlfriend's increasing desire for a larger partner and their shared verbal exchange during the encounter. After the club experience, Confident Cuck shares how they continued their play back at the hotel, with his girlfriend expressing her craving for 'bigger black cock' and them engaging in race play dynamics during sex. The episode explores the nuances of their cuckolding relationship and how it seamlessly integrated with the swingers club setting.
Things get real juicy as we dive into anonymous swinging submissions, including a couple’s first time experience! With zero judgment and of ton of curiosity, we unpack everything! Whether you’re curious or just along for the fun, this is one you won’t want to miss. And check out our interview with Ashleigh Renard as she dishes on her worst attempt at swinging.
Candice talks about dealing with jealousy in the Lifestyle, and was to overcome. She also shares her own experices with her partner and how she worked past them.
Michelle and Candice talk about the Unicorn Landing App, and what lead Candice to create a platform for women only.
Award-winning podcast and International Bestselling Author Dear Nikky is an erotic podcast that shares private encounters and secrets. Each week, I host different stories from listeners and provide a positive perspective, showing that we all have desires. Keep up todate on where I'll be next at DearNikky.com If you have any erotic fantasies you want to share or even if it is to say hello please feel free to send them to Nikky@dearnikky.com or anonymously DearNikky.com/confessions.
A show about intimacy, relationships, sex, and more with Licensed Sex Therapist Stephanie Sigler CST, LPC, PhD
Welcome back to Real Talk Sundays, where hosts Amanda and Val can barely keep it together as they talk about threesomes and a show so bizarre, it leaves them questioning humanity's choices. Listen in on the journey they take through the spectacle that is the British show "Naked Attraction." From the jaw-dropping reveal of anatomical features to the bewildering logic of selecting a date based on body parts, they leave no skin unpulled in their quest to understand the amount of uncircumsized penises that are in the world. Meanwhile, Amanda takes the mic to share her epic fails and cautionary tales in the realm of threesome etiquette. With more than a few misadventures under her belt, she regales listeners with the harrowing saga of all the threesomes she’s had from HELLLLLLLL.
Dear Diary...today I had another full day of magic! I'm sharing all about my experience as a Unicorn in the Lifestyle to include: Pros/Cons, Facets to it all and Tips for if you want to become a unicorn yourself! I also share some of my best experiences as a Unicorn, including an extremely sexy date with one of my favorite couples and one of the most intense finishes ever!
On today's episode we talk about body positivity, negative self talk, shame, guilt, and feeling like you are neve going to be enough and how this causes pleasure blockers and lack of confidence.
I share my story about coming out as Bisexual in my 30's, getting into the Swinger Lifestyle, and Truly finding myself!
